Merry ya

hey,its me~~~

                           不断地寻找 不断地错过 
                                 再不断地重新明确目标
 
                                        这就是精彩的人生之路
 

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人生旅途,沿途的风景,和看风景的心情

    
有一颗幸福的心   就没有什么不幸福
 

I 'm a virgo. Virgoans are not affectionate. 
 

      They are patient, reliable, diligent and perfectionst. 

       There must be less empty talk and more hard work.

 

          
2008.08.24 19:43:00 
 dont give untill people ask for~  

most of the time i give when i see people need
or
put it into a better way
i think people need
but
the fact is people may not need
that s when i screw things up.

so
learn to talk less, do more and give untill people ask
and dont  give too much

sometimes what yourself think or feel doesnt matter that much to others
it only matters to you
if you want to do someone s favor, think about them first.
what they need, what they want.
not what you want
only that can show your caring and love for others

look,listen,learn
see,hear,wait

the first serious relation taught me how to love, and has made me know what love is and feels like

the second relation taught me to be patient, everything takes time.esp if you want a real relation.
dont accept or trust easily.
slow down. step by step.

but
still
nice!

im still who i am.
the nice kind and cute merry
only get better and better

all are the preparation for the one
my mr big.
yes,of course, for myself as well.


ps
watch the "sex and city"this whole week
nice
like it
and the good thing is i feel that my english is getting better by watching dvd
good
keep it
i need to polish my english
more listening, reading, speaking, and writing.

will try to finish the novel at the end of sept.

look forward for my sept.

ps2today is the olympic closing ceremony day!!

ps3 conor keavney is leaving in a week. and today is his last day at ef.
wish him good luck
he s a nice person, although sometimes too childish, and not responsible as an adult
i still like him
he treats me well
good luck conor!

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2008.08.23 21:35:00 
 快乐的我 ?!  
这两天,同事都会说
‘哎呀,merry心情好好哟’

也许是工作让我开心
也许是给别人看的,要努力自己达到的职业素养,保证上班时的精神饱满状态
也许是为了让自己开心,因为没什么开心的时候,多笑笑也会有益处,于人于己

挺好的

一个人一件事
一触碰到
就好难受

时间久了就好了
再久一些
不要强求,不要去想
更多的去做事情
生活是活出来的,不是想出来,更不是愁出来的

我已经恢复很好了
坚持,加油,努力
一定会好!

要过自己的生活
不要依靠别人
少些无病呻吟
去奋斗,去努力
用自己的双手和一份真挚勇敢的心去感受

静静的
好好的

折腾够了
沉下来,静下来
好好思考,好好做事,好好待人
不要蹦呀跳呀
一两个月的蹦一次,就可以了

ps
虽然已经预支了这个月还没有拿到的薪水
但是我的小本本真的很可爱
至少目前为止大家都说值,都说好
我也很喜欢,会很好的保护她
希望她可以陪伴我久一些

我需要的条件都有了
看看我能做出点啥吧

蛰伏 闭门 静修
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2008.08.16 11:47:00 
 a tough july~not easy august either~hope in September  
it is tough
but i m still alive.
nothing can be worse.
i didnt expect this august can be better
so
now
it is still bad
but coz there is no expectation, no disappointment.

it hurts
but also a relief.
happy that finally i can get out that
life continues.
like what charly said:
a new day starts. stop thinking about the past, but the future.
forget about him. be happy as who i used to be.

i m replaced by someone.
i should feel hurt, painful, right?
yes,i do.
but at same time, something wierd.
happy
the fire is dead.
that means i can leave now.
good

hope everybody is happy.
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2008.07.30 15:41:00 
 好的心情,好的状态,赶紧记下~  
8月爱情运势

摆脱负担,感到分外轻松,相当珍惜自由机会,
终于可以情海中喘一口气,或许没有爱情的日子有时还比较好

哦哟
今天两个多小时时间查星座什么什么的
挺有收获?
谁知道呢

反正
这几天的状态似乎不错
比较平静

喜欢平静祥和的感觉

重拾信心,勇气

重新开始吧

目标明确
我要买房~!!
赚钱,少浪费

然后
我感觉到他应该是离我越来越近了
自己也越来越准备好了
一切都只会越来越好
越来越是个好女人,更了解男人

现在相信
谁找到我,不再会害了他罗
是宝贝,是福气才对!
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2008.07.22 17:58:00 
 suffering~  

我难受
很难受~!

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坚 持

做自己,我就是我

一个值得被爱的女人

锻炼身体,保护本钱

拥有成人成熟的头脑

孩子纯净可爱的心灵

 绝 不

失信于人,失去自我

伤害自己,伤害别人

一家之言

In this hustle-bustle world we live in  远离尘嚣的喧闹,沉淀忙乱的心灵,迈向幸福的快乐

想每天听你说,遇见你是幸运,看着你是开心,在一起是幸福,我爱你。

  人生就是一个泡影。女人们拼命装扮自己,男人们一个劲儿地吹嘘,拿谎言伪装。什么都是假的,又什么都是真的。所有浪漫关爱的背后都可能又背叛和欺骗。看来是欺骗,是假象的,往往是真情。真真假假,无休~平平淡淡才是真。无需,不必,想多了,想深了去。做自己想做的,努力去生活,无欲则刚。简单的快乐。快乐本来就复杂不来。

宁愿傻傻得守着一个值得守侯的人
宁愿在没遇到这个人之前孤单一个人
宁愿做受伤的傻子不做麻木的疯子
宁愿没有爱情,也要有爱有情
宁愿受伤,也要去努力爱

一个人不快乐是由一种疏忽怠慢的状态造成的,因为"不快乐"要比"快乐"容易得多。也就是说一个人一不小心就会变得"不快乐

有一颗幸福的心
就没有什么不幸福

众家之言

长得漂亮,不如活得漂亮

Laugh,and the world laughs with you. Weep, and you weep alone.

Great thoughts speak only to the thoughtful mind, but great actions speak to all mankind.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

爱因斯坦说过,生活方式只有两种,一种是认为世上没有奇迹;一种是认为无事不是奇迹。

Laugh through tears.

"凡世的喧嚣何明亮,世俗的快乐和幸福,如同清亮的溪涧,在风里,在我眼前,汩汩而过,温暖如同泉水一样涌出来,我没有奢望,我只要 快乐,不要哀伤。"

“风吹起花瓣如同破碎的流年,而你的笑容摇晃摇晃,成为我命途中最美的点缀。看天,看雪,看季节深深的暗影。”

“在一个机械式呆板的躯壳里,住着一个活生生的灵魂。”

“生命中,不断有人离开或进入。于是,看见到,看不见了;记住的,遗忘了。生命中,不断有得到和失落。于是看不见的,看见了;遗忘的,记住了。然而,看不见的,是不是就等于不存在?记住的,是不是永远不会消失?”

“人生短短几十年,不要给自己留下什么遗憾,想笑就笑,想哭就哭,该爱的时候就去爱,无谓压抑自己。”

“在我的一生中,好几次我曾经伫立在相似的十字路口,眺望着地平线,苦苦搜寻着人生的目标。在那样的时刻,你可以选择逃避,开始怨天尤人,但你也可以选择疗伤止痛,勇敢地走下去,保持你的爱心。”

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