dont give untill people ask for~

most of the time i give when i see people need
or
put it into a better way
i think people need
but
the fact is people may not need
that s when i screw things up.

so
learn to talk less, do more and give untill people ask
and dont  give too much

sometimes what yourself think or feel doesnt matter that much to others
it only matters to you
if you want to do someone s favor, think about them first.
what they need, what they want.
not what you want
only that can show your caring and love for others

look,listen,learn
see,hear,wait

the first serious relation taught me how to love, and has made me know what love is and feels like

the second relation taught me to be patient, everything takes time.esp if you want a real relation.
dont accept or trust easily.
slow down. step by step.

but
still
nice!

im still who i am.
the nice kind and cute merry
only get better and better

all are the preparation for the one
my mr big.
yes,of course, for myself as well.


ps
watch the "sex and city"this whole week
nice
like it
and the good thing is i feel that my english is getting better by watching dvd
good
keep it
i need to polish my english
more listening, reading, speaking, and writing.

will try to finish the novel at the end of sept.

look forward for my sept.

ps2today is the olympic closing ceremony day!!

ps3 conor keavney is leaving in a week. and today is his last day at ef.
wish him good luck
he s a nice person, although sometimes too childish, and not responsible as an adult
i still like him
he treats me well
good luck conor!